… that you need to be aware of to live a fulfilling life:

1.) If they wanted to, they would. If somebody wants to do something, they’ll do it.

2.) You can not change people. You can influence people, you can support people, you can inspire people, but you can not make them change.

3.) You are responsible for your own happiness. Not them, not anybody else. Not your partner, not your parents, not your therapist, not your best friend. It’s only you. Nobody’s coming to save you, nobody is going to fix your life for you, nobody is going to make all your trauma and pain go away. You have to deal with it.